Rediscovering who you are after divorce
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A post appeared in LDS Dating - Midsingles last week that generated over 330 comments and nearly a thousand reactions. The original poster wanted to talk about health and attraction. He opened by acknowledging that "we cannot have an honest conversation about attraction on here without fighting," then
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Have you ever sat in a chapel pew, supposed to feel peace, while a silent fire alarm of perfectionism blares in your head? You are not alone, and it is not unworthiness.
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Someone in an LDS Dating - Midsingles Facebook group posted a question recently — framed, as these things often are, as "asking for a friend." The question: would a non-Barbie figure be a deal-breaker for men in the group? Nearly 200 comments arrived before anyone could catch their breath.
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Repentance itself doesn't break people. But when the prescribed process, the one meant to restore someone, instead convinces them more deeply than before that they are fundamentally unfit for the grace of God and the fellowship of those who follow him, that process is the problem.
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A reflective conversation about how cultures of worthiness can become private perfectionism — and how to reclaim belonging without performing for approval.
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You've told the story of what they did 10,000 times. Research shows every single retelling makes the grip tighter. The person you can't stop thinking about might actually be you. 👀
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I asked her 'are we over?' after we'd already worked it out. She looked at me like I was speaking a foreign language. 'When I work it out, I move on.' It was the first time in my life I'd seen what real forgiveness actually looks like.
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It didn't start in your marriage or end with your divorce. You're not bad at relationships. You're running a contract nobody agreed to — and wondering why nobody shows up to pay.
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94% of people who left the LDS church didn't want to leave. They tried for years to stay. If that surprises you, you've been living inside the wrong story — and it's costing you more than you know.
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Good Job. Temple Recommend. Emotionally Mature. As a collective entry requirement for a first conversation, it functions as a job posting. And men who don't think they'll get the job don't apply.
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She hated dating apps. Got on anyway. Posted her worst photo. Got the most responses of her life. Turns out your glamour shot isn't attracting the right people — it's just scaring away the real ones."
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