Your Partner Is Not the Enemy. Your Unplanned Relationship Might Be.
A new conversation with couples therapist Dr. Stan Tatkin explains why unrepaired moments make partners feel like enemies—and what intentional midlife daters can build instead.
Date Their Tuesday, Not Their Highlight Reel
Chris Williamson and Mark Manson make the case for evaluating a partner’s ordinary life—their habits, stress response, values, and everyday kindness—before you commit.
Why a Man Disappears When You Want to Talk About the Relationship
Why relationship conversations can trigger defensiveness or withdrawal in many men, and how a shame-and-connection framework opens a more honest path back.
A Girl’s Body Is Not a Discipline Problem
A woman in the group told a story from when she was seventeen. She had followed every clothing rule she understood. She was covered from neck to ankle. Her outfit accommodated garments. Her skirt happened to fit the body she had. A bishopric member in his sixties told her parents
The Relationship Does Not Break All at Once. It Runs Out of Granola First.
Most relationships do not end in one dramatic moment. They lose connection through the quiet disappearance of small acts of attention, repair, and everyday care.
The Date Is Not the Prize
A post in a mid-singles group asked people to share their best photo and find someone to take on a date within two weeks. That was it. No long discourse about modern dating. No grievance. No twelve-part framework for becoming irresistible by Thursday. More than five hundred comments later, the
The Passport Isn’t the Problem
International love can be beautiful. The question is whether both people can choose freely, keep their dignity, and build a partnership that makes neither person smaller.
The Great Disconnect: Why the Traditional Marriage Bargain Failed
Sam and Alex examine the strains inside modern relationships—and the understandable reluctance to date or remarry after faith-based divorce—through the lenses of labor, conflict, gratitude, and identity.
What If Dating Is Not Broken? What If It Is Doing Exactly What We Built It to Do?
What if the problem is not that there are no good men or women left? What if the problem is that modern dating has quietly trained us to reject real people before we ever get the chance to know them? And what if the thing we blame most, dating apps,
The Question Quietly Keeping Mid-Life Singles From Love Again
Editor’s note: This regular editorial article takes inspiration from Kait Willett’s YouTube video, “Divorce: Why the System is Failing Men[1].” It examines the wider cultural messages that can make mid-life singles wary of forming a new committed relationship. It does not offer legal, mental-health, or domestic-violence advice.
The Etiquette of the Block
You don't owe an explanation to someone who is making you feel unsafe. Scott and Laurie break down the difference between ghosting and guarding your perimeter.
Men Are More Romantic Than Women. Science Says So.
*Based on the Modern Wisdom podcast episode "The Truth About Sex Differences That Gets Scientists In Trouble" with Dr. Steve Stewart-Williams, evolutionary psychologist and author of A Billion Years of Sex Differences. Published July 2026. Watch it here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=roXX9iuPQIA*